ok....tibe2 teringin nak dgr people's opinion on this subject and i'm sure some of you mesti pernah face a break-up before..
nways..i have this one friend...die dah dgn bf die for 8 yrs...and suddenly diorang break-up after being together for so long..
keadaan my friend currently sgt sgt sgt teruk...
so..i need help from you guys bg cadangan how to help my friend or any cadangan that can help her...
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cadangan pertama:

biarkan dia nangis puas2.

cadangan kedua:

cari kawan yang sanggup denga dia reminisces bout her past love life. I know die mesti nak cerita pasal masa dulu2, just have to have a friend who's willing to listen, and maybe a shoulder to cry on.

cadangan ketiga:

if dia rasa nak pegi ngorat balik ex dia tu.. biarkan dia. eventhough its a silly, obviously desperate move, but let her be. because by being silly and doing the wrong things, she'll learn more. And maybe could forget her ex much more quickly.

cadangan keempat:

biarkan dia denga lagu2 yang sappy2 tuh all day long, for as long as she wants. she REALLY needs it.

cadangan kelima:

as her friend, jangan cakap kat dia yang there's a whole world of guys yang better daripada dia punya ex. she does not need that crap.

cadangan keenam:

as her friend, let her be. this is only a phase. a transition. she may be annoying at times, but she'll definitely appreciate what you've done to or for her during this period of her life.

And no, aku x pernah couple selama 8 tahun.

leave her alone tp dlm ms yg same perhatikan die spy die xwat benda2 yg keterlaluan cthnye mkn pil tido byk2..?
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pendekatan secara Islamiah skit xdek ke?

not to komen ur post deyna, aku setuju dgn apa yg ko post tu

nk tmbah skit je... klo dia Islam, suro le dia byk mendekatkan diri dgn Allah

kalau hubungan kite dgn Allah tu baik, insyaAllah, hubungan kite dgn manusia pn mcm tu

utk yg non muslim, deyna nye cara pn dh ok

uh.. huhu.

ahakzz..mada mada... bgs juge kamu nh ye

tul juge mada.
kene konsisten la.jgn bile susah je baru nak igt, nak mendekatkan diri ngan Allah.
mase senang2, xde plak.
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btul. cam ada kawan aku tu, time study week ngan exam week je dia semayang. time2 lain, ikut kelapangan dan kerajinan dia.

maaf, out of topic. have mercy on me!

wlapn ak rase topik nie da lame gak,n ak rase bdk 2 pn da ok skrang.(?)tp ak still nak komen gak...huhuhuhu....

bagi ak la kan...slamer experience ak,ak rase bek abaikan jer la.think positive.imagine,ko clash ngan dier,ko leh cari yg len n yang lbih baek dri dier.naper nak bzirkan mase ngan prkare yg sndiri pn xpasti.yup hidup nie terlalu pnuh ngan KETIDAKPASTIAN.n sbb tu la jugak kiter pk positive ntuk wat ari esok lebih bermakner...huhuhuhu

Cam kater2 dlm citer meet the robinsons...Keep Moving Forward!!!

hihihi

:D
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hurmm mmg aa spttnyer kte move on after break up ke ape..tp the thing is..kdg2 kite stlll akn rase nk die jugak xkre..walau slame mane pn tp kalo da de jek adedlm pikiran..cmne nak move on..btol x.. huu.. n it'll be more hurtful bile kte tau yg de da move on n bley idop bsukerie d saat kte still lg xkruan,,,huu... ~love hurts

mmmm...lamenye tak masuk forum ni...
nways...thanx guys for the responses...
my friend alhamdulillah dh ok...
berkat kesabaran die and kegigihan die mintak petunjuk from Allah...alhamdulillah Allah dh tunjukkan the truth of her ex-bf tu..and now she's already with someone yang jauh lebey baek dr her ex-bf..
and they're gonna get married soon...hihi
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